Sexting (dirty talk, swapping nudes, sending explicit audio messages…the list goes on, depending on your personal preference and comfort level) is one way to take your dating life to new heights.
Whether you’re single and ravenous for some sexy screen time with a stranger, in a long-distance relationship that’s keeping the passion alive through digital intimacy, or interested in amping up your solo sex toy sessions with steamy instructions from your partner, mastering the act (art?) of sexting could lead to a more fulfilling physical and emotional experience.
Once viewed as taboo, sexting is a mainstream way to communicate your desires.
According to a 2023 survey of U.S. adults by the market research platform Statista, 77 percent of participants said they’ve sent at least one sext — that’s up from 45 percent in 2019 and just 14 percent about 10 years ago.
The cherry emoji and 14 other emoji you can use to sext
And we’re pretty sure those numbers will rise as tech advances and societal norms evolve to become more accepting and inclusive of sexual expression.
Sexting isn’t just a saucy way to get off; it’s a great tool for building trust and intimacy and sharing or exploring your wants and fantasies in a consensual and safe manner. It can also help you and your partner feel more connected and maintain a strong sexual bond (so the next time you get together, it may be even hotter). This is especially true in long-distance relationships or during periods of physical separation.
How to start sexting
For some, just the thought of sending an explicit message or racy photo can be intimidating. (And that’s OK!) There are so many apps and resources out there to help even the most novice sexters feel empowered and confident.
Not sure where to start? Based on our research and hands-on testing, we’ve narrowed down the best sexting apps of 2024 to the following top contenders: